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  • Struggling at bedtime?

    Published 24/10/25

    Read on to find some key information about sleep and tips to help improve it.

    Sleep is a vital part of life, just as essential to our bodies as eating, drinking, and breathing. It allows our brains and bodies to recover from the day’s activities. For children, getting enough sleep is crucial for their physical, mental, and emotional well-being.

    We appreciate that sometimes getting your child to sleep can be a challenge for some families, but there are ways you can change this. Here are some tips and recommendations on how to build a sleep routine for you and your child.

    Top tips:

    1. Stick to a Consistent Sleep Schedule

    • Aim to get your child your bed and wake them up at the same time every day - even on weekends. Having set times will support your child’s body clock.
    • Children 6 - 12 years old need 9–12 hours of sleep.

    2. Create a Calming Bedtime Routine

    • Start winding down 60 minutes before bed.
    • Use visual reminders if you feel it would help – flashcards for example with bath, brush teeth, toilet, story, songs, bed etc.
    • Keep it calm and predictable.
    • Avoid electronics, exercise and large meals during this time.

    3. Limit Screen Time

    • No screens an hour before bed - they make it harder to fall asleep. The blue light produced from devices interferes with the body’s natural sleep-wake cycle by suppressing melatonin, the hormone that helps us feel sleepy.
    • Swap screens for calming activities like: storytime, drawing or colouring, puzzles or quiet play, listening to calm music or audiobooks, mindfulness games and mindfulness breathing.

    An interesting read on the effects of screen time before bed: https://sleepnanny.co.uk/blog/screen-time-and-sleep/

    4. Make their Bedroom Sleep-Friendly

    • Keep it cool, dark, and quiet.
    • Use a night light if needed.
    • Keep over-stimulating toys and screens out of the bed.
    • Create a cosy environment for them where they feel comforted.

    4. Handle Bedtime Battles Gently

    • They might ask for “just one more thing.” Stay calm, firm and consistent. Children need boundaries.
    • Offer them choices: “Do you want this story or that one?”
    • If they get up, gently return them to bed with little fuss.
    • Tackle separation difficulties with photos nearby, a comforter or cuddly toy, something that smells like you, a cosy blanket.

    If you have tried all of the above and you still have concerns around your child’s sleep – such as your child snoring loudly, frequent waking, having nightmares/night terrors or is always tired despite a good routine our advice would be to talk to your GP. We can also make referrals to the School Nursing Team who can also advise you on Sleep.

    If you are struggling and would like to talk to our Child and Family Support Worker about this subject, please contact Carla Foster at CFSW@queensinclosure.hants.sch.uk

     

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  • Making School Drop-Offs Easier

    Published 29/09/25
    Making School Drop-Offs Easier Mornings can be chaotic - but getting your child to school on time doesn’t have to be a daily struggle. With a simple routine and a little compassion (especially if separation anxiety is in the mix), you can se
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  • Summer Activities for Families (Low cost and free)

    Published 25/07/25

    As the summer holidays approach, we understand the importance of keeping children engaged, active and happy during their time away from school. To support you, we have compiled a selection of local activities and events that may be of interest to families over the break.

    Please note that while this guide provides a range of suggestions, the school does not endorse or officially recommend any of the organisations, events, or services listed. We encourage parents and carers to carry out their own checks to ensure that any activities meet their family’s needs and expectations, particularly with regard to safety, supervision, and suitability.

    We hope you find this guide helpful in planning an enjoyable and enriching summer for your children.

    Low cost and free activities to do in Hampshire:

    https://www.hampshireattractions.co.uk/things-to-do-for-free/

    Portsmouth’s free Adventure Playgrounds:

    https://www.pycportsmouth.co.uk/play/

    Easy walks for the family:

    https://www.theamblingpath.co.uk/

    Swimming Pools and Splash Parks:

    https://www.visit-hampshire.co.uk/ideas-and-inspiration/blog/read/2025/06/10-swimming-pools-and-splash-parks-in-hampshire-b241

    Port Solent - Kids Club every Thursday over summer:

    https://portsolent.com/events/

    Havant Meridian Shopping Centre – free activities ticketed but free:

    https://meridianshoppingcentre.com/were-going-wild-this-summer/

    Fareham Shopping Centre - Free Ping Pong Parlour, Podium Playtime every Thursday and Play Day event:

    https://farehamshopping.com/events/

    Joe Wicks – Free animated workout challenges for children:

    https://www.thebodycoach.com/blog/introducing-activate-my-brand-new-animation-for-kids/

    Hampshire Libraries - Summer reading challenge and other events:

    https://www.hants.gov.uk/librariesandarchives/library

     

     

     

    Google Maps – Local Play Parks 

     

    Google Maps – Hampshire Country Parks

     

    SEND Information

    SEND Summer Activities and Sessions:

    Finkley Down Farm - SEND Early Bird Access

    https://www.finkleydownfarm.co.uk/event/send-early-bird-access/

    Various Family Activities and SEND Sessions: https://portsmouthlocaloffer.org/information/summer-fun-events-and-activities-for-families-in-portsmouth/ - Including Exploria, FlipOut and Charter swimming SEND sessions.

    Havant and Waterlooville Horizon Leisure Centre:

    SEND Soft Play – Thursday 16:00-17:00 £4.00 per child, including siblings. Parents and Carers go free. Music is turned off and we only allow 20 children attending to reduce noise and movement. Therefore, it is advisable to prebook.

    Inclusive Sports Club Havant: Join Horizon Today

    Summer Thriving – Please see timetable attached in full document.

     Explore Additional Needs Activities at Horizon Today

    Gateway Card and Gateway Card+:

    https://www.hants.gov.uk/socialcareandhealth/childrenandfamilies/specialneeds/shortbreaks/gatewaycard

    Gateway Cards are free and give children access to community activities, play schemes and buddy schemes through the short breaks programme.

    Leisure and Activities for Children and Young People with SEND:

    https://fish.hants.gov.uk/kb5/hampshire/directory/advice.page?id=MOPm_33ijiM

    Short Breaks Activities:

    https://fish.hants.gov.uk/kb5/hampshire/directory/advice.page?id=wQ4VE5g_-lg

    Short breaks, enable children and young people with additional needs to participate in safe and fun activities, giving parents an opportunity for a short break from caring.

    Community Buddy Scheme:

    https://fish.hants.gov.uk/kb5/hampshire/directory/service.page?id=xCypGryvhNc

    Community buddies enable children and young people with a disability to access the community or support them to take part in activities or groups of their choosing within the local community.

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  • Planning ahead for the holidays

    Published 30/06/25

    As the academic year comes to a close, the summer holiday offers children a valuable opportunity to rest, recharge, and enjoy a break from their regular routines. However, without thoughtful planning, the weeks can quickly become unstructured and less productive. Taking the time to organise your child’s summer can lead to a more enriching and enjoyable experience for the entire family.

    Children benefit from a sense of routine, even during the holidays, and a balanced schedule that includes play, learning opportunities, and family time can support both their well-being and development. Planning ahead also creates opportunities to make meaningful memories - whether through travel, local outings, or simply time spent together. Most importantly, a clear plan reduces the stress of last-minute arrangements and allows both children and parents to approach the summer with a sense of calm and purpose.

    Please see below for some free downloadable resources.

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  • Let’s talk about Mental Health

    Published 20/05/25
    This month marked Mental Health Awareness Week (12th-18th May) - a powerful reminder of the importance of talking about mental well-being, especially for children. In today’s fast-paced, constantly changing world, kids face a variety of emotion
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  • When a book might help.

    Published 01/05/25
    When you are stuck for answers or finding discussing certain subjects with your children difficult, books can often help. All Hampshire Libraries run a scheme called ‘When a Book Might Help’. If you follow the link below, you will see
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